It's Never Easy Saying Goodbye...

I'm assuming by the name change many of you are probably wondering "what the, huh?!"

It's true... and I'm sad to inform you, that Miss Wong and I have decided to go our separate ways. This definitely wasn't an easy decision, but most likely the best one.

A while back I wrote a blog about relationship blunders, and it looks like the Power Struggle phase got the best of us.

I debated writing about this at all; fearing the judgment I know will be projected. but at the end of the day, I promised myself when starting this blog that I would be as honest as I could re my experiences that take place in my life.

Mind you, I started the blog for baby girl and any future children I may have. I want them to know what we went through as a family (good, bad and the ugly) and if (God forbid) anything were to happen to me, they have a piece of me always. Plus, who makes scrap books these days or prints all of their photo's?

I hate to say goodbye, but I also truly believe each parted relationship is a stepping stone to the right one.

I've learned so much in my three and a half years with Jack. They seemed perfect, and were fought for - extremley hard p.s! There was amazingness, fun, challenges, and crazy times all in one. Aren't most relationships filled with a little of everything? But most of all... worth it. I wouldn't have changed a thing and I have zero regrets.

I know breakups don't only affect us, but our loved ones, too. The sense of community we once had is definitely something that will be heavily mourned.

So for all of you who supported us, thank you. For those of you who will part ways due to this, good luck. And for those of you who continue on this journey we call life with me, cheers to many more memories to come. I am truly grateful for all of the love and support you send my way.

Sometimes you just can't love someone the way they need to be loved, no matter how hard you try. And sometimes, they can't love you just as you are either.

One thing I learned... ALWAYS be me... make compromises, yes, but no one should have to change, for someone else.

Please remember to love openly, speak kindly and do not judge - for only they know the story.

<3

"The most amazing moment was when we met
The love and time I have shared with you
have all been; without regret...

In spite of our love
I am painfully aware
That you are gone
And no longer there...

Our minds are made up and you went away
I know it's pointless to wish for you to stay...

Often I don’t know what to say or do
So many times, I have cried over you
Emptiness and sorrow is now a part of me
Since I have to accept, that we will never be...

BUT

Our memories continue to live in my heart
As I wish you well, with your brand-new start...

Please, believe me when I say
You will always be with me
Come what may..." S.W.